I love cooking with my daughter. It is a wonderful way to bond, and the experience allows me to teach her important life skills and instill in her a passion for healthy food.

The kitchen is a place to learn, grow, and build self-esteem. It is also a place filled with possible hazards, considering the sharp knives, hot pans, and other potential harmful tools. That is why it’s important to alter your cooking habits to keep your children safe from accidents. The following simple guidelines can help to ensure that cooking with your children is safe, fun, and rewarding.

Everything In Its Place

Creating dedicated and separate workstations for you and your children is important. This allows your child the space to work away from sharp objects. Keep the areas clean and organized so you don’t risk knocking something over. Children also feel empowered when they have their own space. I love this toddler tower, or you can use a chair with the chair back against the counter.

Heat Safety

Heat is one of the most dangerous things for children in the kitchen, and it’s one of the easiest things to safeguard against. Get in the habit of turning pot and pan handles in and away from other burners on your stove so your child can’t accidentally knock them over. Always test handles before grabbing them with an oven mitt or a folded thick towel. When using the oven, never stick your arms inside to remove pans. Always pull the rack out first, then retrieve your dish (unless you have elbow-length oven mitts). Children need to be strong enough to pull out the rack before they can use the oven by themselves; my six-year-old still struggles with this, so she knows to ask for help. If you have a gas oven, open it very slowly after turning on the broil function, as heat can pool and cause flames to erupt when exposed to more air.

Sharp Matters

There are several precautions you can take to keep your children safe from knives.

Most importantly, keep knives out of reach at all times, even if you are just turning around to grab something. Always set the knife down flat on a cutting board placed at least six inches from the edge of the counter. Even an adult can accidentally knock off a knife if they brush too closely to a counter. Always set a knife down when you’re not using it. Never turn around or gesture while holding a knife. This sets a good example, as kids tend to talk while waving around their utensils. Use two hands to cut, one hand holding the knife and the other holding the food. The hand holding the food should be in a claw position, so fingers don’t end up under the blade. Hands should never rest on the cutting board.

When washing knives, dry them immediately and put them away. The proper way to hand someone a knife is by the handle with the blade pointing towards you, so they can grab the handle. Keep your knives in top shape by regularly honing them to even out nicks and sharpening them as needed. All knives can be dangerous, but a dull knife even more so because it requires more pressure to cut, which gives you less control over the knife, increasing the chance for it to slip. I am not a melodramatic person, but I do not take unnecessary risks in the kitchen. Making these habits a part of your everyday behavior keeps everyone safe.

Knife Rules for Children

Allowing children to use knives in the kitchen is a personal decision based on your own comfort level. I believe that if you can provide proper and close supervision, you can teach your children to use knives safely, so don’t immediately dismiss them as irresponsible or not ready. When given the opportunity, kids can learn to do a lot, especially if you are patient.

I began gradually introducing my daughter to knives and knife safety when she was a toddler. She began cutting with a wavy chopper more independently when she was four and graduated to using a kids’ steak knife around five. More recently, at six, she started practicing with a paring knife. Older children can use knives more safely with less supervision, but you need to give them the tools to succeed. I recommend Montessori knives. Start young children with nylon knives, and from there, you can move to a stainless-steel wavy chopper. I actually skipped nylon knives and started with the wavy chopper. There is another wavy chopper with a handle, but I find it to be a little difficult for small children to use because they lack the motor skills and manual dexterity to grasp it. By the time they can properly use it, they are likely ready to use a paring knife with close supervision.

Every parent knows their child best, but here are some general guidelines for what kids of all ages can do: Very young children around three can use dull knives to slice soft foods like strawberries and spread nut butter onto toast. Around five they can slice harder foods with crinkle-cut knives, and around six they can use a small paring knife to help prepare ingredients. By eight, most children are ready to use a chef’s knife under close supervision, putting them in the running to become your little sous chef.

No matter how old your children are when you start cooking with them, or how far along they are in their kitchen savviness, all children need the same things: to have emotional and physical readiness, be able to follow instructions, and have an interest in learning. When kids really want to do something, they are more likely to focus and to follow safety directions. Have fun with them in the kitchen. Let them choose a delicious recipe they want to eat, pick a time when you aren’t rushed to cook together, and expect imperfection. It’s okay that the cookies are misshapen and different sizes. Your kids will be so proud of their own creations.

With Love,
PrimaFoodie