The PrimaFoodie Guide to the Best Clean Sunscreens

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For the past several years, the team at PrimaFoodie has been vetting clean sunscreens to deliver you the best options for optimal protection. By "clean," we mean the solution contains minerals to block UVA and UVB rays and includes zero artificial fragrance, parabens, emulsifiers, or additional ingredients linked to health concerns. 

We vet these yearly for several reasons: solutions change, which means efficacy and purity may also change, and researchers consistently reveal new data on ingredient safety. This year proved to be a big one in terms of news. The Environmental Working Group showed that approximately 75 percent of the 1,700 sun protection products its team evaluated “did not provide adequate sun protection” and contained "ingredients that could pose health risks."

Sunscreen and 'sunblock, ' terms used interchangeably, generally work one of two ways: Blocking the sun's rays with minerals, such as zinc oxide, or filtering and absorbing the rays with chemicals. Research has linked some of the most common chemical sunscreen ingredients, including oxybenzone and octinoxate, to pose health risks to marine and surrounding environmental life, thus presenting the possibility that these chemicals could impact human health. What's alarming about these two ingredients, along with other common sunscreen ingredients, octocrylene, homosalate, and avobenzone, is that they are absorbed through human skin and, subsequently, other organs.

In a news alert about its findings, the EWG stated the need for consumers to consider their sun protection wisely. "And some ingredients commonly found in sunscreens have been linked to both human and environmental concerns. But they're still widely used in hundreds of products, even though they have not been tested adequately for safety," said Emily Spilman, an EWG program manager for Healthy Living Science, in the news release. "It's outrageous that shoppers may be slathering these potentially harmful chemicals on their skin every day without the reassurance of those safety tests," 

The EWG has warned the public about sunscreen ingredients since it launched its first Guide to Sunscreens in 2007 and has been urging the FDA to review chemical sunscreen ingredients ever since. 

This year, we found that most of our favorites from our 2023 PrimaFoodie Sunscreen Guide still met our strict standards—and we added a few new ones to the mix. Here, you'll find mineral solutions that we believe to be clean and efficacious. But we urge you to always do your due diligence when choosing a sunscreen (or any personal care product): check your labels, know your ingredients, and listen to your gut. 

PrimaFoodie-Approved Clean Sunscreens for 2024

ALL GOOD: SPF 50+ SUNSCREEN BUTTER

All Good is committed to creating products that are  good for our skin and for the environment. This butter is thick, hydrating, fragrance-free, and excellent for the face and body. The compact tin makes it easy to toss into your backpack or purse. The company claims it is "very water resistant,"  but we still suggest ample applications if you're swimming.

KARI GRAN ESSENTIAL SPF 30 

As equally hydrating and protective as it gets, this super hydrating oil serum-type sunscreen feels like a supple serum. A raspberry seed and plum oils base gives the skin a hydrating quench with zero residue.

SOLARA SUNSCARE GO! DAILY DEFENSE MINERAL FACE SUNSCREEN

This lightweight SPF 30 recently came onto our radars. EWG-certified, it is blendable and silky. Founded by a mother who started vetting her personal care products after battling Lyme Disease and also seeing her children react to various sunscreen, the company promotes clean, minimal-ingredients responsible skincare

BADGER ACTIVE MINERAL SUNSCREEN CREAM

A simple, clean, universal SPF 30 cream made by a small, family-run New England company. Containing only five ingredients, one of which being super nourishing sea buckthorn oil, this is a great option for long days outside. It's a bit sticky and needs extra elbow grease to rub in. 

RAW ELEMENTS SUNSCREEN SPF 30+ FACE & BODY

This super thick mineral sunscreen paste goes a long way when you're outside for hours. Considering its thick consistency, it rubs in surprisingly well and leaves only a slight light white cast. This is a great pick for hiking and all-day summer outdoor exploring.

URSA MAJOR FORCE FIELD DAILY DEFENSE LOTION 

Ursa Major continues to be a pioneer in clean, effective skincare. Their unscented, lightweight moisturizer is great for the face, neck, chest, and arms. It absorbs almost immediately without leaving any residue. The aloe vera, jojoba, and shea butter are super moisturizing. 

VIVE SANA DAILY PROTEZIONE SPF 30

This is an easily spreadable, hydrating, tinted sunscreen for the face, neck, and décolletage we've loved for years. Vive Sana's products are mostly made of organic ingredients and are free of chemicals and artificial additives. The Daily Protezione SPF 30 offers the physical protection of zinc oxide with no stickiness or pastiness. 

KINFIELD DAILY DEW SPF 35 

We've long loved Kinfield's products, and this all-day SPF is a winner. It has a silkier texture, which results in a dewy, glowy finish. We love how the aloe and sea kelp add a dose of hydration and antioxidants. 

KIDS

ALL GOOD: SPF 30 KIDS SUNSCREEN LOTION

This fragrance-free lotion is rather light, which makes applying it to little ones' skin quick and easy. We found that a little goes a long way, and it leaves minimal to no residue. It also claims to be water—and sweat-resistant for up to eighty minutes.

BABO: CLEAR ZINC SUNSCREEN SPF 30

Babo is a thick, mineral all-over sunscreen lotion for babies, children, and adults. It's EWG-certified, free of any concerning chemicals, fragrances, or nanoparticles, and deemed hypoallergenic. We especially like how it doesn't run in the eyes. It's supposed to be waterproof for up to eighty minutes, making it great for long days on the beach.

TINTED

IRIS & ROMEO BEST SKIN DAYS

This serum-moisturizer-SPF, which doubles as a light daily foundation with SPF 25 protection, is buttery, silky, and moisturizing. It goes on smoothly and quickly settles into the complexion. We love that it also protects from blue light and contains hydrating rose and moringa oils.

ILIA C Beyond Triple Serum SPF 40

Touted for its "encapsulation technology," this foundation-like sunscreen delivers phytonutrients and vitamin C. It's a clean, light, dewy face product that covers many skin tones daily.

SUNTEGRITY 5-IN-1 TINTED SUNSCREEN MOISTURIZER

This light, tinted SPF 30 comes in four shades. It's sheer, goes on smoothly, and blends in rather quickly, but it does require reapplications throughout the day. We wish the company offered a wider range of shades to include dark complexions.

SAINT JANE LUXURY SUN RITUAL PORE SMOOTHING SPF 30

This natural mineral sunscreen has been a PrimaFoodie favorite for the second year in a row. Rich in botanical antioxidants, including green tea, and hydrating ingredients, it doubles as a protective face moisturizer. We love how sheer it is, with the perfect amount of tint that results in no white cast from the zinc oxide, only a dewy finish. It is quite thin, so reapplication throughout the day is necessary.

SAIE SUNVISOR

We keep returning to Saie products, some of today's most hydrating and gorgeously textured clean makeup items. The 'Sunvisor' is super light and hydrating, with a tinted blend of aloe, hyaluronic acid, vitamin E, and zinc oxide, offering great light coverage all day. It sinks it and leaves no white cast. 

TRUE BOTANICALS SKIN BARRIER SUN SHIELD SPF 30

Part sun filter, part tinted moisturizer, this mineral-based lightweight face lotion sinks in quickly. Given its thin texture, we find it best used as a daily moisturizer, but it doesn't fit the bill for a day at the beach. 

6 PrimaFoodie-Approved Clean Deodorants

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Synthetic preservatives. Binding agents. Antibacterial chemicals. Aluminum. Putting these substances onto our bodies repeatedly would cause anyone to pause. Yet these are ingredients commonly found in conventional deodorants and antiperspirants. And while the research investigating the link between cancer and deodorants and antiperspirants is (still) lacking, there is evidence that these ingredients are known endocrine disruptors.   

That leaves us with finding something better: a product that helps to keep odor and excessive sweat at bay. But a truly clean deodorant—one made without endocrine disruptors and other toxic additives—that works is hard to come by. Thankfully, we've done the work and found several that mainly check the boxes. 

We say "mainly" because finding a clean deodorant can be tricky. Our body chemistry shifts throughout the days and months, depending on what we're going through, eating, and more. All of this can impact the efficacy of a product. Our advice is to go with it. Switching to and sticking to clean deodorants can take some trial and error—but it's a change worth making.


Humble Rosemary & Mint Aluminum-Free Deodorant

This is Nichole’s new favorite. Uplifting and refreshing, it glides on smoothly. What’s notable beyond Humble’s super clean ingredients is that it’s alcohol-free, which makes it gentle enough for super sensitive skin. 

Agent Nateur holi (rose) N4 Deodorant

Each deodorant in this collection is super clean and smells divine. This holie (rose) version, made in partnership with Shiva Rose, has a scent of sandalwood and rose. It isn’t as effective for Nichole, which is why we think it’s best for lighter, non-workout days.

PiperWai Natural Deodorant Cream

This is one of Nichole’s favorites. It’s a simple cream packed with moisturizing shea butter and coconut oil that relies on activated charcoal to neutralize odors and absorb moisture.

Ursa Major Hoppin’ Fresh Deodorant

The aloe allows this to smooth on easily, while the eucalyptus and peppermint leave a cooling sensation. This is a staple that has (so far) worked consistently for us.


Tallowderm Natural Deodorant Balm

This brand uses beef tallow, which is rendered beef fat that is naturally antimicrobial and high in vitamins and moisturizing properties. Nichole has found that the key here is to go light. A single thin layer does the trick. Applying too much and it could stay damp, or cause you to sweat more.

Simply Divine Botanicals Keeping Abreast of It Deodorant

Formulated with odor-zapping silver, zinc, and mineral salts, this light deodorant sprays on easily and leaves a light note of citrus.



Schmidt’s Geranium Flower Deodorant

Since 2010, Schmidt’s has been at the forefront of the clean deodorant game, so they really know how to make a clean stick that works. Each of their myriad of scents, from Rose + Vanilla to Fig + Yuzu, are all stellar, but the Geranium gets our pick. It’s super light, leaves a hint of lemony floral, and is good for more sensitive skin



BeautyCounter The Clean Deo

We fully trust BeautyCounter. Every product from this clean company that we’ve tried gets an excellent rating from the Environmental Working Group and our thumbs up. This deodorant comes in a refillable case and works well—really well—in keeping away sweat and odor.



Cleo + Coco Great Expectations Charcoal Deodorant

This is one of the best working natural antiperspirants. The magic is in the natural clay and charcoal, which work together to zap bacteria and wick away moisture. It works so well, it makes us wonder why aluminum is still a contender. 





The PrimaFoodie Short Guide to Creating a More Positive, Sustainable Home

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“The home should be the treasure chest of living,” French architect Le Corbusier famously said. We agree. Our environments have an immense impact on how we feel and function. No longer do we create homes for mere shelter: Our surroundings are keys to our wellbeing.

In truth, however, creating a home that is both a sanctuary and a supporter of a clean lifestyle might seem like a challenge—but it need not be. The smallest steps can lead to a space that invokes calm and positivity and supports a cleaner planet. Just as we might meditate or eat whole foods to care for ourselves, incorporating certain details in our homes and making specific changes can have a tremendous impact on our wellbeing. Here are four simple ways to get started.

Editor’s Note: If you’re looking to learn more about how our environments impact our lives, join Nichole, Sarah Chavez, and Marina Mizruh for their conversation on “Creating Your Optimal Space” at our upcoming HEAL with PrimaFoodie Summit. Tickets are on sale for one more day. Details here.

 

#1: Vet Your Home Cleaning Products

Even with the proliferation of clean, environmentally responsible household products, it is still easy to get despondent over the detrimental chemicals (and plastics) that some companies continue to use. But rather than getting overwhelmed, we can choose to take steps in the right direction. One of the smallest changes that can have the biggest impact on reducing toxicity levels in the home is to break free from conventional cleaning products. Avoid bleach and formaldehyde and instead aim for simple solutions made of pronounceable ingredients like vinegar, essential oils, and baking soda. (Branch Basics makes an excellent line of plant-based cleaners.) 

#2: Let There Be Healthy Light

Good lighting is one of the most impactful and affordable ways to breathe positivity into a home. By “good” we mean a mix of sources that are natural and sustainable. First, optimize natural light by keeping windows clean and unobstructed. A strategically placed mirror or glossy, non-VOC paint can also help to disperse natural brightness. Second, replace artificial light sources with LED bulbs. These use approximately 85 percent less energy than incandescent bulbs and help to shave off 25 to 30 percent on electricity bills.  

#3: Aim for Glass and Cloth

Disposable materials, particularly plastics and paper products, are still nearly impossible to avoid. But until the giant corporations stop pumping out these products, the onus is on us to reduce the amount that enters our homes. We’ve found the easiest places to start are opting for glass storage and pantry containers, which don’t release any chemicals into food, and swapping paper towels for linen or organic cotton towels.

#4: Dedicate a Space for Calm

At PrimaFoodie, we view meditation as a vital practice for clarity, productivity, and overall self-care. The key to reaping the benefits is consistency—and what supports consistency is having a clean, safe, comfortable space to meditate. This doesn’t have to be an entire room. A quiet corner works just as well. Aim to keep any tools that support your practice, such as a meditation pillow, blanket, or mat, neatly in the area to avoid any obstacles coming between you and bliss.

For more ideas on creating a sustainable, healthy home, see ‘The Case for Keeping a Clean Fridge.’ 


Game-Changing Clean Products, Incredible Heroines, and More PrimaFavorites

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Whether it’s discovering a new inclusive cookbook author or reaching for our tried-and-true clean products, we’re always looking to inspiring brands, projects, and people that make life more beautiful. Here’s a look at what we’re currently coveting, exploring, trying, and genuinely enjoying at PrimaFoodie.

PrimaFavorites: Summer 2021 Edition

School of Lunch Training Academy: “This new cooking academy is top of my list for summer fun. It is an investment, for sure, but a worthwhile one.” —Nichole Perkins, Founder and CEO

Jojoba Oil by Cliganic: “I used this oil all throughout my pregnancy and I’m still using it. I swear it’s why I didn’t get stretch marks—or at least part of the reason. Cliganic stands by using only clean, organic, natural oils and ingredients in their products, so there’s nothing added or potentially harmful.” —Adrienne Levy, Creative Director

Lorena, Light-Footed Woman Short Documentary: “Lorena is an ultra-marathon runner who lives in the mountainous Chihuahua region in Mexico. She has become well-known for winning national and international marathons—always running in her skirt and sandals. Lorena’s determination and simple love for running is what makes her story so refreshing and inspiring. This documentary is a gentle reminder that our passion and love for what we do is sometimes the best thing we can wear.“ —Emila Akrapovic, Associate Marketing Project Manager

Imperfect Foods: “The USDA estimates between 30 and 40 percent of our food supply is wasted. This is horrific considering the plight of food insecurity and the need for better access to nutritious meals. The team at Imperfect Foods is on the front lines fighting food waste. They corral rejected “ugly” produce, imperfect clean self-care items, excess inventory, and undervalued goods from local grocery stores and health food markets. You shop the site just like a regular market and it gets shipped directly to you in a recyclable box. And you generally spend around 30 percent less than you would at a regular grocer. While I aim to shop for all my produce at the farmers market, Imperfect Produce makes an excellent option for filling in pantry needs and making sure perfectly good organic treats, rice, and even nuts don't go wasted. “ —Stacey Lindsay, Editorial Director

Augustinus Bader: “I received this gem in my stocking this last year. It’s a clean version of a fancy face cream. I like ‘The Cream’ for Los Angeles and more humid climates like Tennessee and Texas, and ‘The Rich Cream’ for extremely dry climates like Utah and Colorado.” —Nichole

Mindful Goods Mesh Produce Bags: “I found that most of my plastic use came from using plastic produce bags at the grocery store, so I sought out reusable bags to bring with me to the market. These mesh bags come in three different sizes and they are easy to wash since they are made with cotton.” —Emila

Round Beach Towel: “I love round beach towels, there’s just something about the shape that makes me feel more elegant- These by Serena and Lily are especially comfy.” —Adrienne

Shhhowercap: “I’m a big fan of anything that serves both form and function. This shower cap is chic and looks good in your shower while it’s hanging, and it only takes a few minutes to dry. It’s waterproof, antibacterial, anti-humidity, machine-washable, and big enough to cover long hair in a top knot. The rubber grip around the hairline doesn’t ever stretch and wear out. Made of a patented fabric that feels better than plastic, these caps never wear out, which makes them sustainable.” —Nichole

Kuumba Made Amber & Sandalwood Fragrance Oil: “This oil-based scent is warm and sweet. I use the petite roll-on, but they also have up to 4oz sizes. This is my go-to fragrance because it’s natural and not overwhelming. A little goes a long way. I love how Kuumba made products are centered around creating natural skin care products that soothe, heal, and excite the senses.“ —Emila

Rosewater Spray: “I love a good rosewater mist—especially when I’m at the beach!” —Adrienne

‘Alice Waters Says People Who Call Her Elitist Just Don’t Get It’: “Alice Waters has unequivocally changed the way I approach food. From eating at her legendary restaurant Chez Panisse (and at her former petit eatery Cafe Fanny, a dreamlike spot) to reading her many cookbooks, I’ve found both inspiration and solace in her words about food accessibility and equity and seasonal cooking. Today, at 77, she’s just released a new book, a food manifesto of sorts. This New York Times article captures her fervor for food education and her constant fight to disabuse people of the notion that eating well and organic means spending a lot of money. “ —Stacey

Ursa Major Face Wipes: “Clean, soothing, and hydrating, these natural face wipes are my favorites to bring while traveling. It’s a quick way to refresh while on-the-go.” —Adrienne

The Life-Shifting Potential of a 'Mindset Detox': A Conversation with Coach Keren Eldad

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We’re aware of the toxins that can build up in our bodies, say from eating lots of refined sugar or processed foods. We also know about the havoc this can wreak on our health. What many of us tend to overlook, however, is how our minds are also susceptible to toxicity. “Our mindsets can also be affected by toxins building up, through the accumulation of toxic thoughts,” says certified career and executive coach, Keren Eldad (whom we and her legions of fans call ‘Coach Keren.’)

Nagging and harsh narratives that play out in our heads, like I’m not good enough or I will never be successful are what Coach Keren calls “junk food thoughts.” They may seem banal, but their impact is harsh—and they can get in our way of living a truly authentic and happy life.

Enter ‘The Mindset Detox,’ Coach Keren’s brilliant strategy for freeing ourselves from toxic thoughts. It’s accessible to everyone and—as she outlines in conversation with Nichole here—an incredible antidote to overwhelm and unhappiness.


A Conversation with Coach Keren Eldad

What is ‘The Mindset Detox’ and why is it important?

The Mindset Detox is simple, and so important and relevant for everyone. The reason why a mindset—the established set of attitudes held by someone—“detox” is critical to most is because most people need one. Most people are feeling stressed, stuck, and just feeling like they are not living to the fullness of their potential. The latest Gallup poll and American Psychological Association figures consistently show that north of 60 percent of U.S. adults are feeling daily stress and worry, and this is just one area in which most of us could use a bit of a “cleanse” (to borrow from detox terminology).

We hear a lot about detoxing the body; about how there are chemicals in food that can be harmful, how pesticides can affect us, and how bacteria can build up in our systems. We hear about the perils of gluten, and sugar, and caffeine, and we are aware that the consumption of these can fill our bodies with harmful toxins, which can cause us to feel bad, or to at least not be in optimal health. Many of us are also aware that in order to alleviate the results of toxin buildup, many experts recommend a deep cleansing to help rid those toxins, and get you feeling better. 

My theory is that in the same way, our mindsets can also be affected by toxins building up, through the accumulation of toxic thoughts. Junk food thoughts, like I can’t get well, I won’t forgive this person, there isn’t enough time to catch up, and everyone else is doing so much better than me. If this rings true or familiar with anyone out there reading this, I believe the solution (or at least, the beginning of the solution) is The Mindset Detox.

Specifically, you may want to work your way out of the five most common negative patterns of thought that I have seen, as a certified coach and as a suicide counselor with CTL, towards undoing them and getting past them. These “toxic five,” based on my work with over 500 top-tier leaders and my years of experience as a crisis and suicide counselor are judgment, insecurity (self-judgment), negativity, blame and resentment, and impatience.

What is the best way to go about The Mindset Detox? Where do we start?

The best way to START is to recognize that we are not entirely happy. This is very hard to admit – but just as any search for a cleanse or cure begins in the body, it must start with the awareness of what does not feel so good. When we can identify that there are anxious thoughts we could live without, that guilt plagues us, or that we constantly compare ourselves to other people, or that we tend to blame others in moments of stress – we can also begin to target these and begin to do the work to unwind our mindsets from these patterns. In other words – to detox.

This depends on two things: 1. Admitting that you do not feel 100 percent great all the time, that you do not “have it all together,” that you do not know everything and that you could use some help or work on learning something new around here, and 2. Being able to welcome some uncertainty and discomfort into your life for a brief period while you go through your detox. Just as for most people (if they are anything like me) a cleanse is a shift that requires some effort and discomfort, same thing goes for a mindset detox. We have to relinquish old, habitual patterns of thought that will not just roll over and die. It will require a period of internal work. The good news is, with a great coach and excellent support system, this goes easier. In fact, you may even enjoy the learnings and the process of tackling and detoxing from each of the aforementioned five.

What are some ways to identify toxic thoughts?

It’s pretty easy to identify them but clearing them out is an entirely different matter. I am not too sure a clearing out of brain space is possible, at least not entirely, but a shift in focus IS–and that is what a detox is about.

Let’s begin with identification. I’m fairly certain, as I speak to people day in and day out about thoughts that trouble them, thoughts that scare them and thoughts that seem to feel heavy, that most people know what I’m talking about and can identify these very readily. But let me get specific here to give you some examples: When we dwell on how somebody hurt us or how something set us off our course. 

When we make constant comparisons, dwell on blame, harp on and on about how we never get ahead, on how we have been at this company for so long but don’t think we are being appreciated or are getting anywhere, and even on how terrible 2020 was – we are thinking toxic thoughts. If we let such thoughts linger without check, they will infect our entire lives, affect our attitude and self-image, and they will become a part of who we are. 

Like me, you probably know people who have let their toxic thoughts run away with them. They are bitter, cynical, sour, constantly complaining, stressed, anxious. They are probably also stuck in a negative rut–perhaps in a bad relationship, or perennially single, perhaps constantly in debt or going from job to job, and so on. Why is that? It’s because they let those thoughts take root. By now, their negative—or toxic–patterns of thinking - have not only become who they are, but self-fulfilling prophecies. 

And if you are honest, you probably also identify some such thoughts in YOU. These thoughts come to us all. What is of extraordinary value is our ability to identify them, our willingness to experience or sit with them, and our desire to learn how to focus our mind more on what we DO want to think than on what we DO NOT want to think. This is the work of the detox.

How can we start to shift our focus?

To unpack all patterns of toxic or negative thought would be too elaborate here, but let me begin to help you shift your focus from a negative thought with my number one favorite mindset-shifting exercise. I call it the Pause Principle. Here is how it works:

Every time you hit an obstacle or challenge from now on, I want you to do this: DO NOTHING. Literally hit pause. In this moment, take three steps: 

  1. Turn Inward. Recognize your reaction is the real enemy. Getting defensive, angry, jumping to conclusions–these are the actual problems. The tip off will be negative emotion. Stop yourself right there. 

  2. Question. Ask yourself: “Is what I see or how I see it the absolute truth? Is this the full story?” If not -get curious. 

  3. Reframe. Ask yourself: “How can I see this as an opportunity?”

What is an example of a moment when you have integrated this into your life?

A couple of years ago, I was seated on a flight from Miami to NYC, next to my friend-Latin American TV host Lili Estefan. We sat, we chatted, we drank wine. I was on top of the world. Then, that terrible thing happened. The one that sets us all off – even normally calm people: The plane got grounded, and we were asked to get off the plane. 

This truly incurred my wrath, first because I thought I would be late getting home, and mostly because I was in first class, and sitting next to a celebrity. But as we disembarked, I did that PAUSE in my head. 

In the pause–I first noted to myself that freaking out would not be a good reaction. To wit, as we walked back into the airport, I saw this lady totally take it out on a receptionist who couldn’t do anything for her. She was the problem. Next, I asked myself if the grounding was really so bad. As a stereotypically Jewish person, that was very easy for me to do, because I’ve had a lifetime of training for disasters. So, I conjured them up. I thought- who knows – we might have crashed? Maybe something was wrong with the plane? Maybe the pilot is going through a breakup and isn’t fit to fly?

And finally – in a pause that literally took about 17 seconds, I turned it around and instantly saw the opportunity. I mean, HELLO?  I was in the Miami airport, with a South American superstar. Lili and I turned that very long delay into an adventure. We ran around the airport in one of those golf carts making Instagram movies, and delighting not only everyone around us – but ourselves, too. We had dinner. It was fun. 

The bottom line is that though we did fly coach home, and we did get in late, we got a great story out of it. Plus, my IG following tripled that night, and I got three new clients in South America. 

How do you get out of feeling down and out when nothing seems to be going your way?

What you describe is a conflation of the toxic five. Feeling “stuck,” or “down” with general malaise is seldom only about insecurity or impatience. It’s more of a cluster of feelings. I think what this question is about to address is the feeling many people out there have, which is that they are stuck, or down. It’s like a nagging dissatisfaction.

If so, then I will assume that these people want motivation, and have heard all the advice on how to get motivated and even though they really want to move ahead, they just feel that they...can’t. If so – HOW does one get out of this and into the next level?

The first thing I can say to this is that I understand, and that I know how hard this state is. I remember being stuck myself–way back when I was considering getting divorced, or when I just couldn’t find the wherewithal to start my own business, or when my first business shut down, or when both my cats died in 2015 and I found myself having to start all over at the age of 36.

I mention these times in my life because I want anyone out there to know that they are not alone, and can get over any period of challenge or stagnation, no matter how prolonged. The way out is through the recognition of two useful perspectives:

  1. That you are not actually stuck. What is actually happening is that you are committed to certain patterns of behavior because they’ve helped you in the past. Now, if you are feeling stuck,then those behaviors have become more harmful than helpful. But if you understand that the reason why you can’t move forward is because you keep applying old formulas to a new level in your life, maybe you will embrace what you hear here today–because I will give you the new formula you can try in order to get new results. 

  2. That you are VERY powerful and CAN move forward if you want to. For those out there who are “stuck,” or feeling “down:” I would like to remind you of who you are. You are pure potential. You are a magnificent being with a LOT to offer. If you are stuck, you may have forgotten this. Take a second to remember who you are right now. You are not small. You are not meant to be small. Similarly, you will not be stuck forever. Figure out what’s missing in your life. What aren’t you doing or what are you doing too much of that’s causing you to feel so stuck?

To move forward, you will specifically need to embrace these two perspectives. You will also need let go of three things:

  1. the past,

  2. any blame towards yourself or others, and of course

  3. caring what anyone thinks about your upcoming transformation because you will 100 percent fail. That’s just how life works.

To begin to embody these principles and move forward, listen to the stories in your head. What are you telling yourself about what happened to you in the past? Does it involve blame, shame and regret? Does it involve judgment? AUDIT your stories for the toxic five.

If you identify any of the toxic five (and you likely will), ask yourself why you are stuck on these stories and what you can do to live with them, accept them, and move forward. You can't undo what has brought you here, but you can choose to find peace and to make it useful to you, which will allow you to see your reality in new ways and feel freer to change your attitude. All this takes is work and the earnest desire to grow.

Personally, I did this work just because I was so sick of being that person who whines all the time. Way back when, I had stories too–one to explain each of my problems. They kept me justifying why I was in a crappy marriage, why I didn’t like my job but really couldn’t start my own company, why I couldn’t afford vacation, and whatever else I was denying myself. 

As Rumi said, you were born with greatness. Once you realize this, and really receive it in your heart (it’s ok to mull it over; realizing you are awesome takes time) the rest, the “mindset detox” itself, is peanuts.

What are your top tips for daily mindset resets?

I have only three tips and I live by them:

  1. Meditate every day for 15 minutes and read as much uplifting content as you can, for 30 minutes, every day. Happy minds begin and end with what you feed them

  2. Two epic daily writing practices: A. Write to do lists each morning and watch your time and energy expenditure. You are not a machine, do not live like one; B. Write three things you appreciate each day in a gratitude journal. It will change your focus, which will change your life.

  3. Curate and hang out with people who are awesome, happy and rooting for your rise. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, can do this alone.

For more of Coach Keren’s Mindset Detox tips, watch her IG Live conversation with Nichole HERE.

3 Mindset Tips for Meeting Exercise Resolutions

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Reaching our goals is no easy feat. To create any change requires consistency, gumption, and ultimately belief in ourselves. But so often, we focus too much on the end game rather than the success along the way. It is there, in the process, where the greatness exists. That's why at PrimaFoodie we want to celebrate those small wins. They may seem more limited in size, but they add up to remarkable things. 

It’s the time of year when many of us are trying to make good on big resolutions relating to health and fitness. Whether it’s a new exercise routine or a clean protocol, we come to these decisions with clear-eyed optimism and excitement. But so often—too often, really—we’re left in the dust of our aspirations. But what’s important to remember is that it’s not a lack of gumption or willpower that causes us to fall short of resolutions. It’s our approach. Big goals are achieved through small steps.

I have lived this truth over and over. When I’ve fallen out of an exercise routine, my first instinct would often be to get back on track by leaping into a long run. And then it would hit me: I wasn’t ready for a long run. What I needed was to take a walk around the block—and then to celebrate it. Because that walk would be the first step to the journey that would lead me to the long, joyful run I was envisioning and back into my routine.

If I had pushed myself into a big run, there’s a good chance I would have ended up with exhausted muscles—or worse—and that would have set me back even further. By taking the healthy micro steps that my body really needed, I could build up to a long run in a sustainable way, meaning I’d be able to run easily and often. And that’s really the goal, right? To get into a fitness rhythm where you’re getting exercise most days and you’re feeling good doing it.  

So how do we practice this? By embracing all the steps, no matter their size, and celebrating the small wins. They all add up to a marathon—and by leaning into them, we enjoy the journey so much more. 

 3 Mindset Tips for Meeting Exercise Resolutions

 1. Clear the obstacles.

 All kinds of distractions and impediments can throw us off track. Clear them out of the way so there is nothing between you and your workout.

 -  Get things ready the night before. Fill up your water bottle, lay out your workout clothes, and have everything where it needs to be so you can get to your workout without anything slowing you down.

-  Have a plan. Work with a trainer who creates custom workouts for you or try one of the many workouts available online. There’s so much out there, you don’t have to come up with your workout yourself (and enjoying the challenge with others is motivating).

-  Plan for unexpected opportunities. Keep a pair of running shoes or your favorite workout equipment in your car. If you find yourself out and about with time to spare, you can sneak in some exercise outdoors. It’s a much better way to celebrate free time than hunching over your phone.

 2. Trust that every minute counts.

 Most of us know we should be aiming for at least 150 minutes of physical exercise a week—and that moving more often means even greater health benefits. But this can be broken up into tiny chunks. If 30 minutes a day, five days a week, feels overwhelming, try three 10-minute sessions, or even six 5-minute sessions, in a day. Research shows it’s as beneficial to your health as doing 30 minutes at once. Here are some tips:

 -   Try the scientific 7-minute workout. Many applaud this quick-but-intense interval method.

-   Working from home? Pretend you have to “commute” to your next Zoom meeting and take a walk around the block or go up and down the stairs for a few minutes before you sign on.

-   If you sit a lot during the day, take a 5-minute dance break (or squat break or push-up break) after you complete a big task.

 3. Honor yourself and your wins.

Maybe you’re not up for a full-on marathon today. (If you’re just getting back to an exercise routine, you’re probably not.) So start small—literally. Tell yourself, “I’m not going to run on day one, I’m going to walk around the block.” And then acknowledge and celebrate yourself for doing just that. Even the seemingly small act of taking the stairs can result in a huge shift. Every minute and every movement counts. They are the steps that add up to your lasting fitness journey.


With love,
PrimaFoodie